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  • Writer's pictureOanh Kim

How to Support Your Grandparents in the Future

Caring for our elderly loved ones can be both a rewarding and challenging experience. As our parents and grandparents age, they may require assistance with daily tasks, which can be difficult to see. However, with the right mindset and approach, we can provide them with the care and attention they need while also learning valuable caregiving skills.

Reflecting on my own experiences, I have always been a worrier. Spending time with my retired parents made me realize that they are worriers as well. Being around them often leads to their stress rubbing off on me, which made me more determined to help them reduce their stress levels. It also made me think about the advice I would give my children if they ever had to take care of us or their grandparents.

One of the most crucial things we can do to care for our elderly loved ones is to spend quality time with them. Everyone wants to feel loved and appreciated, and spending time with our grandparents can provide them with the love and attention they need. Whether it is a regular visit or a phone call, connecting with them is essential.

There are many ways to connect with our grandparents, such as taking them out to eat, cooking a meal with them, or engaging in DIY activities together. Small gifts can also make their day, such as making them a card or planning family gatherings every month. These gestures show them how much they are loved and appreciated, which can positively impact their overall well-being.

Showing respect and actively listening to our grandparents is also essential. They have a wealth of knowledge and life experience that we can learn from, and expressing gratitude for all they have done is vital. Ensuring that they have a safe home is crucial, as is encouraging them to engage in light physical activity and stay mentally busy. Helping them with shopping and finding help when needed are also important tasks.

Caring for our elderly family members is not an easy job, but it is a noble and honourable undertaking that presents us with an opportunity to learn caregiving skills such as patience, compassion, and resourcefulness. It allows us to show our love and create lasting memories with our loved ones. With the right mindset and approach, we can provide them with the care and attention they need while also learning valuable life skills that can positively impact our lives and the lives of those around us.

For more information on how to care for aging parents, the article "What to Address When Helping Older Parents" by Leslie Kernisan, MD on provides helpful tips and insights on the subject.


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